Tuesday, 24 July 2012

The Good And Bad Of People

Some of the questions are about the good and people people in my life, so I decided to group them all together for one post. Some of the answers are short, so that's why I can do them all in one go.

Someone who has made your life worth living for.
Jessica. Who didn't see that coming? I think she probably is the only person outside the family who has made my life worth living for.

Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like crap.
Alex. That is all. Actually two Alex's have seriously negatively affected my life. One destroyed me, and the other destroyed my first relationship. I'm convinced that anyone called Alex who I meet is destined to seriously fuck me up in some way. The first Alex is the one who did the totally unspeakable thing that I will never speak of. The second, like I said, stole my second love from me. Cinders was my second, no point denying that really. The more I talk about that stuff the more I say and the closer I get to just actually saying it all.

Someone you didn’t want to let go, but just drifted.
Too many people but I guess the most prevalent one right now would be a friend I had a few years ago. I don't even know what happened to her, one day she just didn't answer my emails and I never heard from her again. There are a few people I've drifted apart from too that are still in my life, but only just. If you've ever really listened to me you know that a lot of people have left my life, most of which I wish didn't, but some I am better without. I guess.

Someone you need to let go, or wish you didn’t know.
You. Just kidding. There isn't really anyone toxic in my life right now, unless you count family members. I think there are some people who think I feel that way about them, but I don't really. Plus I'm not likely to do anything about it, so there's no sense complaining about it really. Why complain about what you won't change?

28 comments:

  1. You are getting closer to speaking to us about the thing you never speak of. I won't press you, but one day maybe you'll feel like letting it out.

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  2. Ha, the 'you' in your last answer made me laugh x

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  3. I couldn't agree more on the last part of the last one. If someone really wants something to change and they have the ability to change it, they will, otherwise they must not really want things to change.

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  4. The last sentence is very true; "why complain about things you won't change?". I guess I really should stop moaning then ;) x

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  5. I am really loving these question and answer post.
    I do hope that one day, when you are ready and if you feel the need, you will let out the "unspeakable" if only because you know that it no longer has the power to hurt you.

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  6. Isn't it weird how how some names just always seem to bring bad things into your life.

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  7. I'm sorry that Alex hurt you, Mark. Whatever he did to you, I hope you know it wasn't your fault.

    Be well.

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  8. I hope you are not friends with any bloggers named Alex.

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  9. Yeah, I've let a few people drift away I wish hadn't, but I guess that's all part of growing up.

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  10. It's horrible when friend drift from you that you used to get on with so well. I can relate to that massively! The little birds parents have been feeding him/her all week, so the little one is safe :) xxx

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  11. brave post
    hope you will never meet 3rd alex who will give you problems.

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  12. It makes me happy to know that you don't have any toxic people in your life. Jeep it that way!

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  13. I've never met an Alex that I actually liked man so I'm with you on that. Jessica sounds really awesome, I wish I better understood what relationship you guys have had in the past, I'm a little sketchy on that.

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  14. I hope that one day, you'll be able to speak about certain things you now aren't willing to. I'm happy that there aren't really any toxic people in your life. And your friend Jessica seems like the coolest person ever.

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  15. Oh my gosh. I'm glad I'm not the only one who associates the name Alex with assholes. Ugh. I've known a guy and a girl Alex that were just awful. Luckily, I don't think I'll ever have to see them again.

    Hopefully one day you'll feel comfortable enough to talk about whatever you feel hurt by. I always find it cathartic to get all my words out. :)

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  16. awhh yeah i wasnt mentioned. feels good man :D

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  17. That first Alex sounds like a real prick!

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  18. Drifting is the worst. Especially because it just tends to happen, and then next thing you know, they die in a house fire. Thanks, Jesus. You dick.

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  19. I hate it when people drift away. I don't want to let go.

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  20. seriously Mark? I have all these questions for myself and I kept it for a while now but I didn't get the chance to answer any of those since I don't know whose names I should put into, there were too many of them.

    and who the hell is this Alex? do you want me to kick off his butt for you???

    and Jess, of course, Jess..you really should be happy to have her. Yes? ^_^ of course. God bless you both! ^_^

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  21. The only people I know named Alex are women whose actual names are Alexandra. I think those are safe.

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  22. 3/4 depressing questions :\

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  23. I feel the same way about an Alex or two. Okay, all of them. I have never actually been friends with someone that has that name because they do something quite vile to me before I have an opportunity to get to know them. It's like they hate me immediately, and must do something to hurt me.

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  24. I am sure one day you will write about this thing Alex did... or perhaps not. It is difficult to say. Yeah. I used to try to avoid writing about the people who have wronged me..but at some point, ya just gotta back up the truck, and throw caution to the wind. Like when I made (or re-created) that 9-11 "All those people...all that rustling" meme.

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  25. I too hate it when people drop of the face of the world in email. But not having many friends it rarely happens to me! There's an upside to everything!

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  26. Those questions, questions that are asked everyday by everyone all over the world. The world would be a much better place with the bad people dying and the good ones, emerging. People, the problem; they, too, the solution. I guess that's the beauty.

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  27. Aww.. *hugs*

    There are lots of people in my life that I didn't wanna let go.. but we drifted apart. Some are just there.. I dunno if they still care.. and some, well.. they're totally gone. But.. *sighs* There are reasons why people leave. I believe there are reasons they're in my past now.

    Hmm.. *hugs you just because..*

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